My fiancé and I have been together for almost three years, we’re getting married in May. We have a 6 month old baby together and he has two kids with her, who I treat like my own. I’ve always given his ex the benefit of the doubt and treated her respectfully (even though she didn’t always deserve it, she treats my fiancé like garbage, keeps the kids from him for weeks on end, makes him jump through hoops regarding communication, is constantly trying to take him back for more child support, etc etc), anyway she’s never outright done anything to me (and I thought she respected me for treating her kids so good, that’s what her daughter said she said at least) until tonight when my fiancé gets a text from her husband. It’s a screen shot from my Instagram of two of the boudoir photos I had taken for my wedding gift to him. My fiancé knows I got the pictures taken and that I posted them to my Instagram but he doesn’t have an account so I didn’t have to worry about him seeing them and spoiling it for him. Her husband said “just thought you’d want to know about this, I would”. As if I was hiding them from him! I immediately called him on my fiancés phone and you could tell he was shocked to hear it was me. He sounded like a lost puppy. Anyway after we hang up, my fiancé calls him and proceeds to yell at him and tell him to stay out of our relationship and that we don’t hide anything from each other (which they do because his ex has had multiple other boyfriends during her current marriage 🙃) and her husband was like “I just wanted you to know man to man” to which my fiancé told him thanks but not necessary and you can hear his ex wife screaming in the background about how she can’t believe he claimed their son for income taxes, even though they have a notarized document saying he can but that’s besides the point. This all started from his 11 year old daughter showing her mother, knowing her mom would start something because that’s what she does. His daughter texted him after it went down and said “don’t get mad at me because they started shit” (don’t get me started on her swearing). I then proceeded to send this text to her husband and got this reply back.

I’m just so mad that she feels the need to still meddle in our lives. She cheated on her husband last spring and he reached out to my fiancé and guess what? He didn’t respond, because it’s not our place to get involved. I just feel so beaten down and defeated. They ruined two of the photos that I spent so much time and money on. I’m just annoyed.

These are the two photos I posted: