Am I overreacting?
I’ve been with my fiancé for over a year now. We have a 6 month old little girl together and since I found out I was pregnant, his attitude and care for me has changed. I’m a stay at home mom, so I never get a break. I can’t eat without having to care for my child at the same time, I can’t shower until he’s home, somedays I can’t even take one because even though he’s home, I’m still the one taking care of her. He works with his sister and brother in law, so he sees them every day. On the weekends, I like to get out just to be away from our room and be able to have social interaction... but anytime I ask to go somewhere I have to have a reason, and he complains. BUT anytime his sister and brother in law ask if he wants to go out and do something, he’s all for it. He assumes that I’m okay with it. Every night when he comes home, EVEN on the weekends, he stays on his phone.. (no he’s not cheating) I have to BEG him to the point to where we start fighting for him to get off of it and spend time with our daughter. He makes me feel as if I’m overreacting. Also, when we go out to eat with his sister and them, he ignores me the entire time. And doesn’t help me out, half the time I don’t even get to finish my food. He doesn’t like to help at home either, I have to once again repeatedly ask for his help. It’s like just because I don’t have a “paying job” that I don’t need/deserve help, that I’m never stressed out or tired myself. (He ASKED me to come with him, he’s a traveling machine operator for a construction company.) I moved 10hrs away from my family to be with him, so he wouldn’t be alone. I sacrificed money and even my own car just to be by his side. I’m letting him claim me on taxes this year and obviously our daughter, and he acts like he’s spending every dime on himself, (he wants to buy a truck, and build it the way he wants it.) I told him he is absolutely crazy if he thinks he’s gonna spend time every dime on himself. I could care less if I get anything, but when it comes on our daughter? No... Am I overreacting on how I feel? I’m just so tired and stressed out over everything. I feel like total shit every day because of this whole situation.😔
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