Awhile back my boyfriends female coworker came to my baby shower, cool beans whatever, she gave us like a $40 gift card, awesome. Then she gave us another 40 for our new baby. Sweet! Well my boyfriend was being sketch and I read messages between the two and they were pretty foul and disrespectful. Mentioning how it should be her in his bed and not me. It was mainly her but I gave him hell for letting it go on.

Fast forward i thought he cut her off but it turns out he cashapped her $150 for her new baby.

I’m fuming. But it feels like I should get over it because it’s for her baby yknow? And he works in a tight knit group so there is no escaping her. What do you think?