What made you realize you had fallen out of love with your SO?

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Past or recent experiences 🙂

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I just didn’t enjoy being around him anymore. He didn’t cheat or wasn’t mean or anything, I just got bored of him. I hated having sex, he never wanted to do ANYTHING but play video games, he didn’t even care if I went out with friends until the middle of the night or the next day. It was like having a roommate. We were too comfortable, so I just left. It was the best thing I ever did.

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I stopped being able to see our future together. I couldn't see our wedding or having kids. Nothing.

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Oh man. It was actually after we broke up that I realized I hadn’t loved him in a long time. I noticed all the abuse that had been going on

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Only realized it when I was more excited to talk to my now-boyfriend over the guy I was actually with. I would bring him up a lot because he was trying to help me get in where he works, he’s also my brothers best friend so one day he asked “oh you talking to your second boyfriend?” I replied “yup!” Didn’t last long after that.

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Oh good topic

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my ex was mentally and verbally abusive and was cheating on me. you could tell something was up with our relationship toward the end. so glad he’s gone though!

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With my ex, he was just such an asshole and abusive that he was disgusting and ugly and just no longer attractive to me.

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My first boyfriend lied to me for weeks about cheating on me (everyone knew and was telling me I just believed him over everyone else) when he admitted it we broke it off because things wouldnt be the same. My second boyfriend broke up with me out of the blue then wanted to get back with me but wanted to be with his ex too. He was juggling between the both of us but came clean to me when he got her pregnant. I didnt want to be caught up in all that so I stopped talking to him after that.

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Exes from high school:
One ex just wanted sex 😒
Second ex had a bit controlling behavior from what I’ve picked up and his breath stunk like really bad 
Third also exhibited controlling behavior and just wanted sex
Fourth was online and he seemed sketchy cause he wouldn’t show his face on video chat. So I blocked him on everything cause he could’ve been someone else 
So I stopped dating in high school 
Ex in college: 
He just wanted sex and I wasn’t down to have sex. So he tried lying and ghosting me and I called him out. Broke up with him. 
I wasn’t in love with any of them though. I just realized I had no feelings of liking them at all besides anger.

What made you realize you had fallen out of love with your SO?

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