My husband won a trip to Mexico (4 nights/5 days) through work for the 2nd year in a row for his sales, and I am sooo unbelievably proud of him. He works so hard and truly deserves it! Last year I was lucky enough to get to go with him, however this year as I am pregnant and will be 37 weeks at the time of the trip, I obviously will not be joining him. I'm terrified that I will go into labour while he's gone and I'm feeling absolutely torn with guilt if he stays and I don't go into labour at all. I feel like he shouldn't go in case I deliver early (our first son was born within 8 hours of waking up with contractions in the middle of the night at 39 weeks). And I'm convinced there's NO WAY he'll make it back on time if I go into early labour this time. If he willingly goes knowing the risk and misses the birth of our son, I fear I'll never forgive him. Not to mention I'll need someone to stay with me full time to help with our first son and in case I need a hospital trip (closest hospital is 30 minutes away) What are the thoughts on this?