help! i need advice/ ideas

Marnie

i haven’t started bleeding, but my hcg numbers are dropping. only 4+5 weeks along. i just had a miscarriage at the end of december and we got pregnant again in january, but looks like we’ll be losing this one too. for the first one i used pads only since that’s what you’re supposed to do, but we leave for mexico in a couple days and i don’t know what to do. for one, i have no idea when i’ll start bleeding and how on earth am i supposed to enjoy myself at the beach, pool, etc. how am i supposed to wear a pad for those things? or go in the water? what do you guys recommend? i feel like i would want to wear a tampon, but i know that won’t really work. i don’t know what to do.