To preface a few years ago I caught my husband snapchatting other women online. This was 2 years ago. We’ve gone to counseling and he hadn’t given me any reason to not trust him. I was seriously hurt by what he did and do this day I’m just not 100% and it sucks.

I go through his phone periodically (which is so unhealthy) but my therapist said for at least now is that gives me peace of mind then go for it. So I did and I saw that he was best friends with some women who I didn’t know. Turns out this women he met at a gaming store and they were talking about games she mentioned her husband, he mentioned me etc. He told me he had added her on Snapchat just the other day to talk about games. Whatever

I know the normal person wouldn’t overreact and I’m trying not to. But I can’t help but still feel slightly annoyed and frustrated at him because he know the shit he did in the past, like why even put yourself in a situation that might look sketchy to your wife...ugh I needed to get this out it’s been bothering me. I literally don’t talk to any guys not even my old guy friends and yet here he is talking to a women he just met? 😐