My in laws never wanted me and eventually after so many obsticles my now husband and I got married and they just had to deal with it.

They still arent a fan of me but keep it under wraps and are fake nice. Its not like i was a huge fan of them either... anyway here I am still with my husband 5 years later and they are still all up in my grill.

Everything related to my daughter they think they can have a say. She is slightly constipated and I was just saying to her when we went over the other day (we go over once every week, husbands choice not mine otherwise i would go once a fortnight) mind you they only live around the corner!!!🤬 anyway back to the constipation part... she starts telling me what i should and shouldnt feed my little one like i dont know... when i was there i gave my little one some avocado (not like she has it every day) and she starts saying maybe you shouldnt give her avocado because it might be too hard on her from the fats it contains. She is very old school and makes so much fatty foods yet here she is telling me AVOCADO is bad for my child. I try to explain what fats it has and that they are actual good and she just fkn ignores me.

Moral of the story i can say so many things and these people just dont take me seriously when it comes to my choices with my daughter. I talk and then talk over me or just disregard anything i say. My husband is extremely attached to his parents so he literally does not say anything to them and im left to deal with it on my own.

I dont mind people giving their opinion but when its a constant thing it starts to piss me off because im sick of them trying to control how and what my daughter consumes, what toys she should play with, how she should sleep and what not.

They also make remarks when holding my daughter ... like “oh look she (as in my daughter) isnt even searching for her mum”. Which makes me so upset because yes my daughter isnt super attached to me unless she really needs me and hearing them say things like that hurts me as it makes me feel like im failing in raising my daughter.

Honestly i dont know what to do, pretty over them.

Just wanted to vent, sorry for the long post.