I’m not a sensitive person at all...in fact, I rarely cry and usually brush things off.

A year and a half ago, I started working for the court system. We have to make recommendations to the judges. Both of our judges, if they disagree with something you recommend, will basically pick apart your case and tear you down in front of clients and the rest of the courtroom until you look like an idiot. Even if you do something right or that they agree with, they never acknowledge it. My confidence has basically gone in the toilet since I’ve worked there.

Do you think bosses/superiors should call you out in front of everyone if they disagree with something, or make a note of it and speak with you later?