How do you deal with insecurities when you’re having sex? I have body dysmorphia and anorexia. I’m 20 lbs overweight (and not just in my head, I had a baby and have that much to lose before I’m at a healthy weight) and super down on myself. My body has changed, including down there. I’m so insecure about everything I do in bed, my sex face and the sounds I make. How do you handle it? I’m no longer with my baby’s father and the thought of meeting someone new and showing them my body scares me

Edit-I won’t go to therapy. My baby’s dad is emotionally abusive to me and tried to make me look crazy because of my anxiety, he now lies about me to everyone to make himself look like a victim. I’m not giving him anything to hold over my head. As far as he is concerned, I don’t have an eating disorder. I’ve never gotten to a dangerously low weight and I eat as much as a healthy person who’s dieting.