Should it bother me that my husband doesnt by me a card for my birthday, valentines day or even a mothers day card from my daughter. Not fussed about gifts but ive always loved the thought of recieving a card cus it shows they care. I always buy him a card and bake him a cake on his bday but he litteraly does nothing. We will go out for a meal and he thinks of that as a reasonable gift type of thing. But we go out for dinner and get takeaways often enough anyway. Sometimes i think maybe its because i dont do enough as a wife. But think i definitely do. House is always clean when he comes home from work and dinner is always made for him. I do all of the housework which i dont mind as he works full time. Im home most of the time anyway. I also work and also study too. He does his fair share though. My birthday was recent and i had no card from him or my daughter shes only 4 so he needs to buy it. He just says he didnt get time. But they sell cards everywhere. You can litteraly buy one from the local shop. Some people might say its no big deal but it just bothers me so much. Is it a big deal or am i overreacting?