I’m gonna try to keep this short and simple.

My sister (age 27) has had an on & off again relationship with a guy (age 30) for two years, and she’s currently seven months pregnant.

He has a history of ghosting her, and coming back weeks later with no explanation.

She says that he’s straightened up since she’s gotten pregnant and they’ve been happy, but she told me the other day that he confessed that he masturbates to my Facebook picture, (I’m 21, and it’s just regular ole’ selfies, I don’t even show my shoulders, let alone anything that could be considered sexy, it’s literally just pictures of my FACE)

She said he told her he does that when he gets mad at her, and he confessed because he wanted her to know.

When she told me it made me SUPER uncomfortable as I have pictures of me & my child (age 3mo) on my Facebook, and me & my husband.

I was upset, uncomfortable, and mad she didn’t do anything besides laugh it off.

She said “Oh, it’s not a big deal. He does it to get back at me when I make him mad, but we look just alike, so it doesn’t even matter. It’s not like he’s looking up random girls or porn, we’re almost twins!”

I told her that she should be mad and uncomfortable he was jerking off to her sister more so than she should be if he was watching porn.

What do y’all think? She’s annoyed that I’m mad and uncomfortable around him now.

Am I over reacting? Idk how to feel.