4 years ago (16) i was talkin to this guy and we eventually started liking each other. I thought he was sweet and funny but i just met him. Multiple days i would skip school with him and other friends (never did anything yet) but one particular day just me and him skipped. We parked the car in a spot nobody usually goes to (so cops wont see us or nosey parents) and we talked for a minute. After talking he eventually started kissing me and stuff and suggested sex (i was a virgin) and i said no. He persistently said "please" , "just the tip" , and trying to get me in the mood as i said "no i dont want to" 50 times. Eventually i gave up and said yes bc he wasnt going to stop asking and he said "just the tip". Well things started and he goes all the way. I say stop but instead of stopping he tries to calm me down and "make it feel better". I just wanted it to be over. Then he tells me to do doggy style and i didnt want to but like the first time he asked and begged saying "just 3 strokes" until i said yes. I turn over and he does it and i tell him it hurts and i want to stop but he says "just a few more".This lasted long enough to make a video behind my back so he could show the whole football team afterwards. He proceeds to expose me and hold that video over my head for months. He has been cut off but he sometimes tries to come back. I want to know what this classifies as. Some say its rape, some say i put myself in that predicament so its my fault, and some say "just keep saying no" "you could leave" and "you did say yes". I just want some answers.