I need to vent and get someone’s opinion here!!! a few days ago my bf who i’ve been talking to for 3 months tells me his ex was pregnant and got a abortion with his baby but she showed up at his new job he just got and he goes the whole day not telling me she was there. Then that night he asks to hang out and tells me his ex gf was pregnant for 4 months and just got a abortion. there was no proof or anything and it kinda hurt me he went the day without telling me she showed up or even told him that. it was almost like he wasn’t going to bother telling me....

Then another day went on where it was like pulling teeth to get him to tell me something and usually he tells me everything. He didn’t text me all day and usually we text 24/7. The night went on and on and i was scared i never heard back...the whole night goes by and he finally texts back like nothing happened and said he was at his friends and his phone died.

Then the other day he got in a car accident calls me right when it happens and then ignores me the whole night. i understand he had to deal with police and insurance and all that but he ignored my message every time i asked what happened and i didn’t have a clue where he was what happened or if he was ok i was so nervous all night...

Now we barely text anymore and he’s just fading away and slipping idk what to do. i’m trying to be there for him and of course give him space i’m not clingy at all and i trust him but he dosent understand i’m hurting that he’s fading away.... what do i do? if i tell him i just sound needy and he’s going through a lot so i look like a attention seeker