I just found out I'm 4w 3 days pregnant. How would you go about telling your spouses kid(s) that they will be having a brother or sister? We're waiting till 12 weeks but I'm nervous. She has strongly expressed that she wants to be an only child since she was 3 (7now). I love her dearly but I am scared how she will react. I love her to death. We will be video chatting when we tell her since she lives so so far away. Any ideas? Shes at the stage where she is starting to get really emotional so I don't want to make her cry. But I don't know how I got pregnant. I've had 3years of unexplained infertility and this is a miracle. But I've always been worried how she would take it. She hates sharing attention (she's the only child on her mom and dad's side) so it's understandable