How to cope with mil

Okay my husband and I have been together for a couple of years. We use to live with his mom, I have had some bad experiences with her. To where she would Try and get in my face yell at me and I would cry. My husband would talk badly about me and my family to his mom. She’s be in all our arguments. Now we live on our own and his mom Never really talks to me she reaches out to My husband for everything, the other day she texted me and told me to watch out for hoes and to take care of mr husband; and sometimes when we fight he’ll go to his moms house. Well now every time he talks to his mom on the phone I get so mad I feel like I get talked about. Why is this happening? I don’t want a marriage like this to where I get angry w him talking to his mom. I hate this feeling man. He says he doesn’t talk about me but I feel like They go Against me