So to give some background info this girl had a huge crush on me and I kinda liked her as well. But I had a girlfriend. Me and my girlfriend had had a 3rd partner in the past and it was ok, she only gave my gf (Jae) the attention and not me any and with our polyamory relationships we want it where all 3 love each other equally. It’s not open relationships. If theirs a 3rd we all love each other. Well back to the main point the girl likes me so she said that she would date Jae because she liked her too so we all started dating. Didn’t really last long because. She would always ignore Jae most of the time and would ignore me sometimes. Ether leave us on opened or read. Would ghost us. And while doing that she would always post on Facebook ether a bunch of funny stuff she just shared/reposted. Or like “my 3rd cousins dog is pregnant please pray for them” or on snap snap she would have “hmu” or “bored hmu” while still having us on read/delivers/opened. And like while posting memes and hmu on her story she could have texted us or something. She would leave us on read for like 2 days or so sometime. I’m kinda clingy. I usually wait only about 6 hour before texting my s/o again but I thought I would wait she if she comes around so with 2 days I would react and we would talk for a while then leave for 2 days again. And every time we would talk she would only talk about her hornyness or ask me for nudes (I have a body issue I don’t like so I don’t like sending nude). one time me and Jae wear in bed together and we Decided to text her and you can read for yourself (Also when we added her she was like “you can’t tell no one my mom doesn’t know Im bi yet” okay I respect that. And that’s why her name is crossed out) ⬇️

Also her life issues where “my cousin has to go to a private school with no phones” “my mom is having her period cramps. Please pray for her” like bitch I’ve been on my period for 182 days (I got an iud. Not really working) or she would say “I failed my Geometry test I didn’t want to study for. Pray for me” And if she really “loved us” as she said she would have told us about it. Or texted us saying something like “hey I’m down I won’t be online for a while.” Or she would have at lest told us she was busy.

I was trying my best not to get mad. I stay calmed the whole time even when Jae wanted to yell and scream and stuff. I stay calm and she little broke up with us because of our Insecurities that’s really fucked up to me. But I can’t tell. Maybe I wan in the wrong idk. But she broke up with us on a Friday night. And on Monday I saw this on her Facebook

Like are you fucking serious. And this wasn’t for us. Because again. She didn’t want anyone to know she was dating us. Do not even 3 days later she already moved on to some other guy (I know it’s a guy because she doesn’t want people to know she likes girls) so like, really bitch. You gonna day you love us. Only ask me for nudes when you do text me and then break up with us for our insecurities like damn bitch. Idk if I’m in the wrong I could be. But my gf and some colleagues sat that she was in the wrong. What your opinion?