Bedtime-help help help!

JL

My little guy WILL NOT let anyone put him to sleep except me. Even if I don’t nurse and feed him a BM bottle. He’s fine. But my husband tried tonight and he legit screamed on and off for 30+ minutes. (I was putting our 5year old to bed which doesn’t happen very often and when I asked if I could switch with daddy he got really sad and said “mommy you never get to put me to bed. Please stay” so I couldn’t leave after that!) my heart was breaking though hearing little man cry so much! 5 year old finally fell asleep during story time and I went into the baby’s room. My husband looked like he was ready to pull his hair out. I asked if he’d keep trying and he shook his head, handed him over, and left. So defeated. Idk what to do! My mom was in town a few weeks ago and sent us out on a date night and the same thing happened. There was no other choice and thankfully he gave in quicker than tonight. But she said he screamed himself to sleep. Any advice mommas?...