Getting back into dating has been a roller coaster after a 7 yr relationship/5 yr marriage.

I definitely was attracting guys initially who were drawn to my low self esteem and my unhealed wounds... they left me confused... spinning. Replaying all of our interactions to figure what he feels and wants.

Y’all. If he wants you. You’ll know. I’ve been seeing this guy for 2 weeks. We’ve been talking a lot and hanging out when we can. He’s not made any advances towards moving into a sexual relationship... though we have been kissing a lot.

He’s genuinely interested in getting to know me... and he sends me things like this.

There’s no confusion. No games.

It’s great. I now know what it feels like when someone is generally interested. You don’t have to question it. They just tell you.