So anytime I try to let my husband know how I’m feeling with our sex life , he takes it so personal and gets mad.

Let me start by saying lately I’ve woken up and just needed it. Monday I made it happen (I’ve been the one initiating it lately) then Tuesday I had a horrible headache so it just went away. Last night I wanted to have sex. He knew this because it had been talked about. He knew I’ve been wanting sex the last few days.

So we go at it and he ends up finishing before I do. So I said “are you done already” he said yes and my response was “well that sucks” and he freaked out and said WTF. I don’t know if he thought I said “it sucked” or what. But he seems to never take care of my needs for sex. Why couldn’t he apologize and said don’t worry I’ll finish you off or something. We have tons of toys and vibrators.

I had tried to tell him I want the romance back, it just gets stuck in. No foreplay , no making out , no toys. We’ve been together for so long that I know time makes things eh but I’m trying to bring it back.

By me saying how long we’ve been together his claim is “it makes it sound like you’re bored with me”. That’s not at all what I was saying. But I’m a sense I kinda am. I am very attentive to him. I love showing my love by kisses hugs ect. He has moments that way but lately isn’t. It just sucks.