One twin super clingy and the other not?

Lili • Twin mama ~24~ Married 💍

So I'm sure this is completely normal, but I'm just super sad about it 😭 I have twin boys. They are 14 months. One of my twins is super clingy and will come over to me and raise his arms to be picked up all of the time. If I'm sitting on the floor, he will come and give me a hug and kiss. He'll bring me books and sit with me while I read them. But my other twin... He doesn't do any of that very often. He is very independent and he always squirms away from me when I try to hug/kiss him. He likes playing on his own. He'll smile at me when I talk to them during breakfast, but I just feel like he is way less clingy than his brother and I'm sad about it. Anyone else have this happen with your twins or triplets?

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Omg i feel you, mine are just 6 weeks old but my boy is so much more needy that my girl it makes me sad that i hold him more 😞

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Yeah, definitely. My girl twin is very independent, but my boy twin loves hugs and wants to be held all the time. I think it’s perfectly normal - they may be twins but they’re still 2 totally different people!

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Stacy • Feb 15, 2020
Mine are this way also. My son is such a mommas boy while my daughter is more independent she is also not nearly as social as my son.