When to try for no.2

Caitlin • Mummy to a beautiful 3 year old little girl, Isla Harper ❤️ two angels 👼💕

We have been extremely blessed with our amazing little girl Isla who is now 14 months and in full on toddler mode. Her birth was nothing more than traumatic and almost led to her losing her life, after a 6 week hospital stay we got her home on oxygen.

We have started to think about baby no.2, we want our kids close in age. I feel like I am prone to having miscarriages though so it’s a daunting thought. One before I had Isla at 5 weeks then one last July at 8 weeks (unplanned pregnancy). So the thought of going through that again is off putting.

Is two years a good age gap? Or would 3 be better. I’m so undecided but excited of the thought of a new little one to run our lives lol