We have a 2 year old and a 5 month old. We sleep separately. We barely talk. He says I dont make his life better but he doesnt make mine better either.

He went to china in January and I pushed him to go because he hadn't seen his family in 10 years. Since my son was born I have had postnatal depression and felt very insecure as well as very bad anxiety. So I asked to send me photos and message me everyday. Well he gets to China and goes silent. 3 times in the 2 weeks he didnt call it message for over 24 hours. I had to call his mum to find out what was happening.

It really hurt. Because he knows I'm insecure and have anxiety and he promised to keep me updated but he didnt. He said all he did was sleep. But if your sleeping you have time it's not like he was busy.

We argued a lot when he was in China. He came home and wouldnt touch me. He barely spoke to me. He came back with a huge attitude that everything I do is never good enough. Because his mum does this and his mum does that.

Now its gotten worse. Everyday we fight about money.he calls me and the children a burden. I cant get a job because I never finished school and would make half of what he makes. He knows this. We met when I was 17 he promised to look after me and support me. So I trusted him.

Get ready loads of screen shots

He apologised after but it's too late he had already said it. Hes coming home tonight to give me the ultimatum that's if I listen and follow him he will stay and if I dont agree he is going to leave.

Last night I messaged him and he ignored me. He openly admitted that he does not have the energy to talk to me anymore

Its valentines day and he hasnt even sent a message. Not even a hello.

I just want options. I am feeling so crap right now. I'm holding back the tears. I dont want to upset my kids