Okay so I’m 33w and 1d. My husband always told me before I got pregnant that thinking of having sex with me being pregnant is hard be she’s our baby is literally right there.

Well fast forward to being pregnant. We had lots of sex in the first trimester but as things started to show he started to become stand offish with sex. We still would have sex just not very often and to be completely honest it was more for me then him.

Fast forward to my Doctors appointment a few days ago. I’ve been feeling a lot of pressure in my nether regions and I asked the doctor if she could tell me what position the baby was in. She told me she’s heads down and if she did a cervix check she would probably be able to feel her head. Well my husband was in the room and made the joke that we were completely done having sex and I made the joke back don’t worry your dick isn’t that big you’re not going to hurt her.

Well now it’s Valentine’s Day. I’ve had a rough start to my day. I’m a hairstylist and my color correction I had today cancelled so I’m already super bummed about that, as i love my job and look forward to it. So trying to stay positive ya know? I’ll finish my baby shower thank yous, go get my car aligned and treat myself to some Starbucks. Well my husband asked what I wanted to do today and I said sex and carry out as I don’t really want to go out as I just don’t feel attractive. I feel huge, everything hurts. Today is the most sore that I have ever been in my entire life. My hips feel like they’re gonna break. And my husband is dead set on not having sex. I respect his feelings ya know? But it hurts mine. Like i just want to feel attractive and be intimate and hopefully lift my mood up, but now we’re just fighting about it. Ughhhh third trimester is taking its toll and I just needed to find somewhere to vent. I’ve just been having a rough couple of days I guess. Thanks for coming to my pitty party. Happy Valentine’s Day everyone 💖 we are in the home stretch!