My little guy has been giving us a heck of time with diaper changes lately, mostly because his poor little bum is so red and sore. Generally I’m successful applying some butt paste and it will just about clear up by the next diaper change. But the last day and a half or so, as soon as I go near him with a wipe he clenches up real tight making it almost impossible to clean him properly let alone apply any cream. Is there anything stronger or that works faster? Any suggestions on how to help him through this? Diaper changes are such a struggle and he cries so much - I feel terrible! 😢