A few months ago I had a miscarriage. It was my first time getting any sort of positive and I told my close family (parents, sisters, and sister-in-law). After losing the baby it was very hard for me and my family was sad too. Since then, I have found out I’m pregnant. 7 weeks, but have a couple weeks until an ultrasound. My sister-in-law who was supportive through the whole thing but now she says don’t tell anyone until after the ultrasound. She is the only one who knows and I just feel so excited. It’s something I was to enjoy and share but she doesn’t seem to share those feelings anymore. She replies “you’ll announce after your ultrasound”. I know it has to be coming from a place of care and concern but it feels like it’s being said only because I had a miscarriage the first time. If I didn’t have a miscarriage, I don’t think she’d say wait. Thoughts?