My fiance's name is Andrew James. He wanted his first son to share his initials and middle name so we agreed on Axel James. A year after we started dating his uncle died so he asked that we name our second son after him. I agreed under the condition that our seconds middle name was for the preemie my cousin lost. So our second child was named Jerrod Michael. Now we are expecting number 3 and it's a girl. I lost my mom almost 6 years ago and want my daughter to have a name similar to my moms. My moms name was Penny Sue. So I asked to name our daughter Penelope Rose. Rose is my middle name. I feel like if our sons both have family names from my fiance he should be willing to compromise and name our daughter after my mom. Am I wrong for being upset that he keeps telling me no? I feel like it's very unfair.