This is the third v day my bf and I have celebrated together. He didn’t really plan anything till the day of and couldn’t buy me anything because he broke his ankle and has been on my couch for 2 1/2 months.

We still ended up having a good time, he booked a wine and design class and he bought me Starbucks/ wine for the class.

Earlier today he got weird when I wanted to go to Ulta because he didn’t want to buy me anything because he already spent so much money on the other stuff and later was going to buy dinner, and I told him I didn’t expect him to I just wanted to browse. Which I really meant I didn’t expect anything.

After Ulta and before our wine and design I bought us lunch. and then we went home and chilled for a bit. After the wine and design class we were pretty drunk so decided to go to a bar that stilled served food because all the restaurants closed.

The bar was only serving appetizers and since I’m vegan I only got French fries (which isn’t a dinner Ik). But he ordered a lot more than I did and a beer. When the check came I asked him how he’d like to pay, and then he danced around it for a bit until I suggested that we split. Then he danced around it some more until agreeing to split.

Ok welp here’s where I’m the asshole. I got quiet and wanted to go home afterwards because I did expect him to pay for the dinner from what he said earlier. On the way home he confronted me about it and I told him the truth but he went off on me and kept saying, “why are you being such a _____bitch,cunt,asshole,dick.” He kept saying that to me rotating the slurs. Then he said I need to date a 40yr man who can buy me whatever I want because he’s not that guy. And then went on about how I’m a spoiled brat who can’t appreciate anything.

I wasn’t trying to be ungrateful, but I definitely see his point. I apologized but we are still in a fight because I feel like I deserve an apology for his language towards me and he doesn’t agree, am I wrong?right? Should I just move on and apologize again?