So I'm currently 18 weeks and getting over a cold. I swear I felt flutters for a few days the weekend before last, but since then, I haven't felt anything, and it's starting to make me nervous. I came down with a cold a few days after feeling them, but I'm feeling better now. If I hadn't felt them in the first place, I wouldn't be so nervous. This is my first and I am also overweight, so I know both of those things can make it take longer. But the fact that I felt them and then nothing makes me feel like something is wrong. I'm just being paranoid, right?