After a long time - 2 months- we went to a Bday Party. It was mostly stressful for getting ready and getting there because my fiance being hectic and short tempered. Not even 2 hours in my fiance suggested we should go home because LO needs to sleep.

He then said it's irresponsible if we went out party settings even if our child is 2 or 3. This rigid lifestyle is depressing me. In other parts of the world (Greece, Itay etc) children aren't brought up to be so rule set. Besides, I look forward to any events because being a SAHM is a pretty shitty and depressing job especially now in winter.

How do you do it?