Im unhappy in my marriage

I have been married since just before my 22nd birthday over 7years ago.

It was a marriage to a man i didnt know, religious marriage to whom i believed was a good man.

I wouldnt say my husband isnt a good man, but he doesnt have the same thinking pattern or way as me.

He seems to completely lack common sense and the ability to think normally. And i honestly dont mean to be disrespectfull in saying this but i need advice.

We have 4 kids.

I have no love for my husband. I care about him in a non loving way. I have no physical attraction to him. I have no desire to be with him physically.

We do not connect on an emotional level either.

We run into problems and arguments daily about basic things, we cant see eye to eye because he has so little understanding. He lives in a little box and cant see beyond that and doesnt have the ability to understand other people or peoples feelings and emotions that is irrelevant to him.

We are always arguing my oldest daughter has developed bad characteristics which i believe has stemed from the unloving and non happy life and relationship between me and my husband.

I am always angry and upset and its affecting how i am with my children. I DO NOT want this!

I dont want my kids to grow up in this type of environment i know the harms it can have.

My husband doesnt want to divorce but i cant stand being like this day in day out.

I have been feeling like this for years and hoped it would get better bit it has only increased.

I need advice? Should we try and just stick it out even though our personalities crash and it is pretty much destined to fail. Or should i bite the bullet and divorce and leave my kids to grow up in a broken family??