Orgasm??

Question

My boyfriend has been fingering me lately and he wants me to squirt/cum but I never do. He does it really fast and aggressive like so after my kitty aches. He fingered me today and I had to tell him to stop because it wasn’t getting any wetter and I didn’t like how hard it was. I want it to be more enjoyable because I haven’t cum before but I also wanna know how to do it myself to get practice... any advice or tips?

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I’ve never been able to come from penetration alone, he sounds like he doesn’t know what he’s doing and like he’s been watching a bit too much porn to be expecting your body to react like magic. Porn is extremely unrealistic. Don’t feel bad about yourself because there is nothing wrong with you, take your time to get to know yourself and show him what pleasures you and what doesn’t.

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some women can’t come from penetration. tell your boyfriend to take it easy! try working together to figure out what works best though

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Okay not all girls 'squirt' or shoot bucketloads of juices out their vaginas. Being rough with it especially if you're not into it doesn't help either. If anything, he's just hurting your kitty for no reason. He needs to do what turns you on sexually and what you like. Maybe educate him that roughness isn't always the answer. You're not shooting a porn film, so be passionate and take y'all time exploring and discovering what you both like.

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see if he’d be willing to go down on you while fingering, that could possibly help. i know it helped me squirt for the first time when i didn’t think i was capable! but i agree it’s not about the speed, it’s about where he’s hitting. you’ll know the spot when you feel it

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Might be worth taking some time yourself alone to get to know your body if you get my drift. 
Then you can let your boyfriend know what you like and sort of guide him I suppose. 
Don’t feel bad if you can’t do it okay x

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