MIL Baby Shower 😡

So I had my baby shower scheduled months in advance planned by my mother and sister, and my husbands female family members were all invited. At first they all accepted, but about 4 days before the shower they canceled. Well my shower was yesterday and today I get a call from a family friend of theirs who asked to throw me another shower. This same thing happened with my bridal shower down to the friend offering to throw the shower.... I had my baby shower scheduled on a Sunday because I work Monday-Saturday. The woman throwing it said in not so many words that the shower was not even for me but was for his parents (my MIL) because this will be their first grand baby and that Sunday’s don’t work for them so it has to be a Saturday. Oh and she will be getting the guest list from my MIL but I can invite a few people if I want. The exact same thing happened at the bridal shower and it was so awkward I hated it! I had just told my mother in law last night that I was glad I didn’t have to go to another shower and that I was exhausted and was looking forward to resting and preparing for the baby for the last few weeks I have. I’m going to go and I’m going to hate it, but I am going to start leaving his mother out of all family events. Just needed to vent about it thank you.

Update: the agreed upon date does not work for my MIL so she had it changed on the digital invitations sent out and then told me so I can’t change it or cancel it. She rescheduled it for my nieces birthday party. After this party I am cutting her out of my life and my sons life. If my husband wants to talk to her that’s fine but I want nothing to do with her anymore.