Why not me..?

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I feel bad saying this, but why not me?
I see these 17 year old girls and girls who are at the club every night getting pregnant... I’m happy for them. But why them over me. I know the big guy upstairs has a plan... but I can’t help but obsess over every twinge and negative pregnancy test. But this girl can get pregnant by just looking at her. 
I eat healthy, I am healthy, I take all the right supplements, I don’t drink or smoke. Why not me?

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I know so many people would like the answer to this question...

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I'm feeling this as well 😩 I'm 22 for Hecks sake! I went to a small school with only about 100 students and almost everyone has had one or more babies by this point. My mother had 3 children by the time she was my age, my grandma had 2. I feel so behind, but we'll get there ❤️

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I feel you 1000% 😭😭😭😭 I'm 22. I'm married, have been for almost 3 years. We both make good money, have our own place, support from family. And nothing. Meanwhile people in highschool or people who are single or just don't want a kid get pregnant all the time. It breaks my heart 💔

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I feel the same way. Like all my family members and friend have at least 1 child, some have multiples and most of them are younger than me. Im happy for them but its hard to wonder why not me.

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I totally feel you!!!! My brother in law brings his girl- friends over and like 3 of them are pregnant and still smoke & drink. Come downstairs for food and complain about how they cant do pills or other hard drugs anymore cause of the baby. I get so irritated. It's getting harder and harder to ignore their complaints and them still smoking

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Don’t worry girl I feel the same way! I have regular periods, regular ovulations. I take prenatals, don’t smoke and don’t drink. My fiance and I are young and healthy and it’s been 14 months trying and nothing. It’s heartbreaking but it will happen! Keep your head up!

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I find myself asking this question a lot. I recently miscarried my first pregnancy, and while I know jealousy is not good... I find myself wondering why everyone around me are having no issues getting pregnant and carrying to term. I’ve been around people who have drunk alcohol and smoked during there pregnancies and they still managed to have a beautiful healthy baby with no issues. It just makes me feel like something is wrong with me. I’m 22 and my mom had four kids by the time she was 23. However, she did miscarry before she had me and afterwards she was pregnant a month later. I do love my little angel with all my heart and the wound is so fresh I can’t help but to think about it. We just have to keep the faith that god has a great plan for us and we will have exactly what we are meant to have in due time.

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