my boyfriend and i are normally very sexually active. a couple of weeks ago he made a joke that made me feel a little bad about myself and made my sex drive become nonexistent. a couple of days ago i decided that i was over it ( he’s apologized 100000 times and really didn’t mean it, he’s never mean) and wanted to give it a go. but he told me not to because i “wasn’t over it” what does that mean? that’s the only explanation he’ll give me