Mums partner is an asshole HELP!!

Howdy Hi lovely people of glow. Mums been with this guy for 10 years and omg her taste in men is abysmal.

He’s got serious issues with aggression - once screamed at my brother so hard my brother was so scared he wet himself (he was a child). He also tried to assault my brother when he was 15 (this dick was 50!) who’s side does mum take? Her partners. My brother came and lived with me for a short while.

Point is there’s lots of problem behaviour and lots of red flags. Frankly I can’t wait for this man to die. He’s horrific. Opinionated and a piece of shit.

He has depression so my mum feels sorry for him but it’s not good enough. I’m depressed and I’m not like him.

This morning he accidentally stood on one of their cats - I’ve been visiting for the week and he totally lost his shit with the car and has just tried to kick it before throwing him out.

How do I open my mother’s stupid stupid eyes before she marries him in June? And then cries that it all goes to shit after she marries.

I’m so upset. She’s picked men over her kids before and she’s doing it again. Hate is a strong word but I hate this man.