I am currently 26 weeks pregnant with a little girl, I already have a little boy. I am having a lot of issues with my last and worrying about my daughter who isn’t even born yet. My husband comes from a very different culture and they do things extremely differently, luckily my husband is very supportive of me and knows I have certain issues with things. Now because I’m having a girl I’m having a lot of worries about someone violating my daughter in some way, I’m having nightmares about someone taking her and piercing her ears, and making her wear certain clothes and jewellery... my husband supports me but I feel like I’m losing control of what could potentially happen, and it’s manifesting it’s self into things that I know are going to come up... I know it seems crazy but I just can’t get out of my head someone taking away my control of my daughters safety. I also have worries about when I go back to work that my daughter will be alone without me at my mother in laws house, with her all my husbands family... I was abused by my uncle so family things bother me a lot.

I just would like to chat with someone who is maybe going through the same thing.

If you thing I’m being over the top, please just scroll on because I’m feeling very vulnerable at the moment and couldn’t take any nasty comments. Thankyou xx