What would you do!?

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I’ve told my husband multiple times I did not like the fact his baby mama “randomly” calls him drunk @ 5am.... & not even about the kids... & I had asked him to block her on fb. They can still text & stuff. & this was the outcome that I saw.

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Co parenting is one thing, him telling her what you said and basically both of them mocking you is a problem. Are you sure there's no lingering feelings?

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Get a new husband

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Girl... NO.
They’re both laughing at you

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I get it he doesn’t want his baby mama to be in danger and would want her to be safe but she clearly doesn’t respect you and that’s where i would draw the line because instead of standing up for you and saying he also doesn’t appreciate it he threw you under the bus and seemed to side with her.. 
Disrespect at that point! I would try and talk to him again about how it bothers you and why! But instead of being like “it bothers me you answer her drunk calls you should quit being disrespectful” say something like “it upsets me when you answer her  drunk calls because it makes me feel disrespected” 
Try to use “I” statements because it’s less aggressive and less argumentative and may help you to get him to understand your concerns

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NOPE. My husband and I have always had his ex wife blocked. I have her number blocked. He only texts her when it has to do with the kids and even that is very rare. Usually he will discuss things during pick up/drop off with me present. Ex’s that get alone are a no go for me. She got a little too friendly with him when we first started dating and that immediately stopped when she realized he wasn’t playing along. I would not be okay with this.

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Drop him like a hot potato

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I think you need a new husband.

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I’d leave his ass ASAP!!!

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He sounds like a huge POS

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He clearly doesn’t respect any kind of marital boundary and prioritizes her feelings over yours; so this justifies a SERIOUS conversation.
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Maybe between the 2 of you, then all 3 of you. Because if they are BFF; fine (and good for their child!) but they both need to respect YOU. Even if she was a man; there needs to be respect. 
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Ultimatum time.
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We’re ALL friends or no friends.

What would you do!?

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