Preparing for a cerclage in about a month

I'm preparing my mind and body for a cervical cerclage in about a month or so to prevent baby from being born too early. Last pregnancy I lost my son at 19 weeks due to an incompetent cervix. Hoping this time I get to hold this baby in my arms. Anyone have tips and tricks to get through the pain and advice before the procedure? I'll be taking a week off from work after it's done. How did it feel? Was the pain bearable? Advice would be appreciated. Thank you.