It's not a game but it is to her
Background:
She is a heavy smoker, and smokes weed and drinks
She's 26 years old, she doesnt want kids, doesn't believe in abortion for herself but supports others
She lives with her mom who also heavily smokes
Her boyfriend, smokes and drinks
He is well over 30 years old
He has cheated
He has stated to her he is not the relationship type, has told her he doesnt want to be her boyfriend. He doesnt want kids, has told her he will wave his rights and not pay child support if she gets pregnant
She keeps saying they are together, they have unprotected sex, she refuses birth control because it makes her "fat"
She her period is late.
I told her shes being stupid as fuck, shes being irresponsible.
She just laughed and says well if it's in the plans... I cant with this girl.
I'm no one to judge but, I feel really bad for her if she gets pregnant especially by this guy
I will always support her, but I gave her all my advice.
Hope she is not and I dont think this will EVER be a wake up call for her..
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.