SO reposting or liking photos of other women?

Question

I know this can be such a controversial topic! I’ve been dating my partner for 2.5 years and have been on and off. I recently found out that they have a tumblr page and I just wanted to go on their page and check out the kind of stuff they’ve posted for fun! I don’t now why it took so long for them to tell me about this page so I checked it out and found that they’ve reposted a lot of photos of beautiful and gorgeous women w small waists and big asses. 
I think these women are sooo pretty and they deserve all the recognition, however I just feel kind of weird....he reposted tbese when we were on a break so obviously it was fine for him to do whatever and even if we weren’t on a break he’s his own person and can do anything he wants on his social media. I just feel kind of odd because I’ve never felt that way about any male models that I’ve seen on Instagram or other social media platforms. 
I am pretty self conscious about my body bc I do workout and lift but I still got a tummy and I look NOTHING like those girls. I ended up crying about it lol and I just talked to him and asked what was going through his head when thinking about reposting these things. He said that those pictures don’t mean anything to him which is fine, but I just feel like when I post things on ig it’s not just stuff that’s meaningless to me, THEYRE things that I want to share w other people. 
Can somebody please help me keep sane and explain if your man has done smthn similar? I mean I feel like I’m acting ridiculous but my emotions are getting the better of me (I’m supposed to get my period next week and can also be a factor lol)

Answer

If it matters to you, that’s what matters honey. 
Have a conversation and decide what matters to you- what’s okay or not in your relationship. That’s a healthy thing to do from the beginning (once things are serious/established and you’re committed to each other)
Simple as that. 
I have friends who look at and pick out “hot” people as a couple, works for them. I have friends who look at porn, works for them. I also have friends who don’t. 
My spouse and I realized over the years the affect of “going elsewhere” didn’t do jack for us OR our sexual connection & since certain discussions over the years, we get our needs met by each other. 
It’s respectful and respectable. 
Not everyone has to go looking at the “next hottest thing” - that’s also a lot of society and culture trying to make you believe you aren’t able to or can’t satisfy one person- it’s a lie. You can 1000% have an amazing connection (intimate life) without looking outside of your partner!
Some people don’t give a rats behind about what their partner looks at or does when they aren’t around, or even when they are around. And that works for them. 
You do what works for you, what makes you feel comfortable and confident. And find someone who agrees and wants to live the same lifestyle ❤️

Answer

Honestly I was finally able to forgive my bf for being such a thirsty mf on Instagram, he would like every picture and did it without even taking in consideration what it was. Sometimes he would like pictures of beautiful women, and his taste was different he’s into metal girls with tattoos piercings and it made me feel so insecure bc I have none of that and on top of that they showed their bodies. I became so consumed in that bc I constantly compared myself and I didn’t feel good enough. It’s such a sucky feeling bc they say it doesn’t mean anything when they are literally lusting over these women and they have no self control. So I feel you on that. I became so self conscious that I started eating healthy and worked out so far I’ve lost 10 pounds in 2 months🙈 Advice I have for you is feel good about yourself, grow in your confidence. Also know that you are not defined by what he likes and that these women are not who they appear. Behind all of that is insecurity and it seems as if you are a healthy person. You are allowed to feel however you want no one can tell you if you’re right or wrong, and it honestly hurts. What I recommend is talking to him and telling him how it feels, that you are not being considered and how would he feel if you did the same? Ask him to respect you and explain to him how this has been affecting you. Set those boundaries, it’s ganna take him some time but be patient.

SO reposting or liking photos of other women?

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