So ever since I’ve had a baby, my sex drive has been incredibly high. Like my fiancé will walk by me and I want to jump his bones. However, lately he’s been having trouble getting it up and staying up. He gets so embarrassed that he doesn’t even want to try. My anxiety is starting to make me think he’s not attracted to me anymore. He assures me that’s not the case, and he’s very lovey dovey toward me, we just haven’t been able to have actual sex. I know part of it is exhaustion, I think part of it is he doesn’t want to get me pregnant again (I’m getting an IUD Friday so we’ll have a very teeny tiny chance) but is there any way I could possibly help him at all? He wants sex like I do, he’s just struggling a bit.