Missed miscarriage

Went in for an ultrasound today and should have been 10 weeks and 6 days. The ultrasound tech said no heart beat and the baby was only measuring 9 weeks. I want to get a second opinion just because it only took her about 2 minutes to come to that conclusion, but i didn't see a flicker myself either...Its crazy because i haven't had any cramping or bleeding. Also my nausea has continued. I really don't know whether i should keep hopebor accept it and start the healing process. My husband it completely crushed, and I know it sounds weird but a part of me wishes he wasn't there with me just to spare him that part of it. I have 2 healthy fulllterm pregnancies and never experienced anything like this before. Im just feeling lost