Orgasm??

Laykin

I’m in my first serious relationship and I’ve never came before, but he was fingering me the other day and I’m not sure if I came. Can someone please help me out?? I felt tension down there and tried to release it and he said I came, but honestly it didn’t feel like what everyone says. It wasn’t amazing and I didn’t have the intense wave of pleasure. It was just a release. Was this an orgasm?? And any tips on how to really make me feel good? (I’m new to this sex life, Ik it’s embarrassing. I’ve just kept to myself for like 10 years lol)