Cutter's patrol schedule and TTC

Rebekah
Hello everyone. My husband and I are married member to member. We are trying for our first child. Sadly, I am attached to a cutter and most of my cycles have coincided with the underway patrols so I'm getting pretty frustrated. Since February there have only been 3 months where there was a chance of success. Would any of you be interested in continuing a conversation sharing your own successes and frustrations with TTC or in general how the military affects so many unexpected aspects of our lives? By the way with my current unit being a patrol boat in the coast guard it means I'm in port for a couple weeks then out for 2-3 weeks.