What should I do if a guy with a girlfriend is flirting with me?

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This guy flirts with me but he has a girlfriend. I know he flirts with me, that's not the confirmation I came here for. All my friends and some of his friends see it. I just don't know what to do about his girlfriend. I want to tell her, but I don't know how. Shes an aggressive "fighter" type, and I don't WANT to fight with her. 
I'd feel bad if was the reason they broke up. I don't know how to tell him, since knowing him, he'd brush it off. He's a nice guy, I hope to still be friends at the end of all this! :( Leave advice/opinions?

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I would focus on what you are comfortable with and not comfortable with. If you are not comfortable with something he says to you, just create a boundary. “I am not comfortable with you talking to me that way knowing you have a girlfriend, please don’t do that anymore.”￼￼ I would leave her out of it. She’ll find out that her boyfriend is a flirt without your help.￼￼ She might even already know.￼

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Your hand, his face

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Set boundaries. Tell him to knock it off, you don't like to be flirted with by someone in a relationship. If he is such a nice guy then he will respect you.

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Just be clear and firm with him and tell him you are not ok with it. If he brushes it off and ignores you than stop talking to him. It isn't worth keeping him as a friend if he doesn't care about your wishes and could lead to a fight with his girlfriend.

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Question: why do you want to be friends with this “really nice guy” who obviously has zero respect for the women he’s in relationship with? Nor any respect for the women (you) he flirts with knowing how combative and aggressive his girlfriend is?
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Doesn’t sound like such “a nice guy” to me.
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And sounds like you enjoy the attention and possibly WANT her to find out so he’ll be more‘available’
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If his friends notice it and don’t say anything to him (or her)- then GOOD chances you’re not the only one he flirts with.

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Just stop talking to him and stay out of it. It's not your business.

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I’d tell him “you have a girlfriend, this isn’t appropriate” and ignore any further interactions

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I wouldn’t tell her if she is aggressive. I’d tell him “I perceive this action/those words as flirting and I would appreciate it if you’d stop. You have a girlfriend and I don’t want to be involved in any drama.” Or you could talk to one of his friends maybe and see if they’ll talk to him.

What should I do if a guy with a girlfriend is flirting with me?

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