In front of our other kids! I’m furious.

She has health problems and I’m working them out. But she’s tough.

He was talking to her and saying “you are just the sweetest, cutest little burden there ever was!” What a fucking weird thing to say?????

So I was like “....what??? What are you even saying?” Like basically trying to process how ducking weird and awful of a thing that was to say. And he got super defensive and started raising his voice at me saying “I misspoke! Get over it! Whatever!” And kept going.

And my older daughter was like “I’m sorry mommy got mad at you, daddy” and he was like “it’s ok, daddy just made a mistake” ????!!!!????!!!!!!!

I am so furious

He always dotes on my older daughters and then just called my youngest a burden. I’m just so heartbroken for her and disgusted and can’t stop crying

To clarify for the people who think he was joking: he has asked me in the past if I thought we made a mistake by trying to have her. He’s not joking, which is why I’m so angry and hurt. If he were joking, which I’d know... since he’s my husband and I know him... I would not be angry.