I left my fiancé am I wrong?

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So my fiancé & I been TTC for 6-7 months ..we’re finally pregnant I’m 4 weeks❤️something told me go through his phone so I did..I saw his sister & his messages. She told him not to get me pregnant & my fiancé laughed & said “lmfao I won’t “ 🤨
My heart raced & I am still shaking so bad trying not to stress my baby out.. he told me before she KNOWS we were trying to get pregnant .. we both agreed to wait to tell everyone I’m pregnant until I’m 14 weeks. I confronted him he said “babe you didn’t want me to tell her you’re pregnant so what did you want me to say “ I told him since she “KNEW “ we were trying none of that made sense & his response could’ve been “you know were trying ..” 
Am I wrong.??? Someone please calm me down😞😞😞😞😞

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Honestly, I think you are wrong. He maybe didn’t handle it the best, but he was just saying whatever to shut her up and not go on about the subject. If he didn’t want to have a baby with you, he wouldn’t purposely have sex and ejaculate in you. While I think you should express to him that you’d prefer it if he stuck up for you, I don’t think it was a personal issue. If someone thinks their brother or whoever is too young or immature for a child, they’ll say “don’t get them pregnant.” It isn’t necessary nice and that may not be the case, but I don’t think this is worth leaving someone over. And stop going through his phone. You looked at his messages with the intention of finding something to get mad about.

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I feel you are wrong in this situation. You had no right to snoop and look at his personal texts to his sister. 
He may have been joking. But either way he should be entitled to a private text conversation with his own sister.

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You’re wrong. Stop policing his PRIVATE conversations and stay out of HIS phone. Doing so is controlling. Sounds like they were both joking anyway. Get a grip girl!!!

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How old are you guys? It seems to me you already had something against the sister and their relationship.  Why would you even be going through his phone conversation with her? You were planning on marrying this man, you were going to be in his sister's life forever anyways, especially now that you're pregnant. That is not going to change if you keep the baby, even if you don't get back together. You don't give us enough info to know for sure, but that comment could have been purely about him and had nothing to do with you. And even if it was, people are entitled to have opinions about you that they won't share face to face.  Sucks but that's how it is.

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Why did you leave him over that? You told him not to tell anyone and it sounds like he just wrote that to end the pregnancy conversation fast.

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Way overreacting.. he didn't want her to know so he lied.. he wouldn't of been able to win either way.. if he had of told her.. u would of been pissed and ur pissed now.. if u love him.. reach out and say u was wrong.

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The say goes if you look for a problem you will surely find one. I think you are blowing this out of proportion, could he have said it differently? Sure, no question, but then if you look back, hand on heart, can you say that you never regretted something you said or thought that this was formulated poorly?

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Idkkkk. Maybe he really just was keeping the secret. I'm not sure I'd make my child grow up with separated parents over this.

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I mean I’m with him, maybe his reply was awkward but like what do you want him to say. 🤷🏼‍♀️ you both are having a child and you don’t leave over a stupid text reply. Parenthood is tough enough

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I think maybe you’re overreacting. He probably just said that because he nervously responded while trying to respect your wishes to not tell people. Men aren’t the brightest bulbs. Lol I think he handled it in the best way he knew how given his predicament. I wouldn’t stress it. I would’ve just laughed it off and said “nice response smooth guy!” 
Focus your attention more on YOU’RE HAVING A BABY! Yay! Congratulations! 🎉

I left my fiancé am I wrong?

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