So I have had baby fever for the last 6 months and I started talking with my doctor about finding a donor because I was single at the time and don’t really want to have kids after 30... I’m 28 now will be 29 and i have a 9 yo son... Met this great guy about 4 months ago... this has delayed the process of moving forward with the donor because we’ve talked kids etc... Should i tell him my plans and move forward with them or should I just see what happens with us???