Feel alone

My husband and I have been together for 6 years. We just recently had a baby in November so things have been busy keeping up with a little one. I love my husband dearly and he treats me like a princess but he can be SUCH an asshole sometimes. He works in IT and works remotely so he doesn’t really interact face to face with many people regularly. I would say he has a type A personality and has pretty bad anxiety and OCD. We are complete opposites and I think we complement each other really well as I’m more laid back and easy going. I’m struggling right now because even though my husband treats me great, sometimes he speaks so down to me and it’s starting to really bother me. He’ll mimic me, calls me out in front of others for something I did and corrects me all the damn time. I’m so easy going that I usually don’t care or I address it with him and say he needs to speak to me more respectfully. He always ends up apologizing or tearing up because he feels awful once I bring it to his attention. My issue now is that he keeps doing it. I feel like I’m more sensitive now that I’ve had a baby (and more tired) AND other people are starting to notice. He’ll do it in front of my family and I catch them looking horrified at what he saying to/about me. It’s so embarrassing and I’m now at the point where I’m mad that I’ve addressed this with him multiple times and told him how it makes me feel and he stills keeps doing it. I know he has a heart of gold and doesn’t intentionally mean to hurt my feelings or be an asshole but it’s still happening and I don’t know what to do. I’m sad to think that our son will see him speak to me the way he does and think that’s how men should talk to their SO because that’s how daddy talks to mommy. I also feel stuck because I wish I could vent about my husband to my friends or family but I’m worried that they will think poorly of him or tell me that they’ve noticed this for a while and think he’s a bad husband. I don’t know what to do but I feel alone with this. My husband is fantastic and we have a great relationship but it’s so irritating and frustrating when he keeps speaking to me like this.